The Bird's Nest

I Forgot to Mention

2012-01-25T15:41:00.000-05:00

Cillian is now in his own room.
He has been for about 3 weeks.

It's bittersweet for me.
Our babies were always in our room with us, mostly out of necessity due to lack of space.
In that, though, I came to appreciate it. It's easier with nursing, but I also learned that I (most of the time) like my babies close to me. I actually sleep better at times when they're in bed with me, nestled all snug.
Aidan was a fabulous co-sleeper. He'd snuggle in and stay put.
Brennan was only for a month or so, and then he needed his space.
Cillian is depending on the day. ;)

Unfortunately he reached a point of waking nearly every 2 hours. It coincided always with us coming to bed, so he seems sensitive to any noise. Once awake, he'd want to nurse, then after that we'd have to leave the room to let him cry, come back in once he stopped, he'd wake, and the cycle continued.
It was "musical sleeping": starting in our room, moving to the living room, back to our room, even the boys' room. I just needed SLEEP!

So we said we'd do a trial run, and it was much much better. This week not so much, as 2 more teeth are coming in.
All in all, Cillian seems happy with his own room & space.
I do still bring him to our bed from time to time, but I admit it is nice to be able to move more freely in our room. Kid #3 is what it took to have an actual "nursery" in our home! :)
The playroom has been transformed:

I was sad to give up the only "playroom" we've ever had, but sleep is more important.
For now.

Catching Up~ A Visit with a Friend

2012-01-24T12:13:00.000-05:00

Last Sunday we headed 2 hours south to Dayton.
What's in Dayton, you might ask?
Well, a very dear friend is stationed there (USAF).
We've known Steve for going on 14 years (14?! That makes me feel old!). He & I were in Austria the same semester, he & Pat lived off campus together senior year, he was in our wedding, etc.

Steve has also spent a good amount of time overseas serving our country. We are thrilled to have this hero-friend of ours not only in the states, but in the same state as us!
He's made several trips to our area, so we loaded up the kids and drove to him.
He made us a most delicious German dinner.

See? YUM.

Following that we had a personal tour of his "classroom", as he called it:

So cool! Lucky kids.

Next we went to the Air Force museum, (Wright-Patterson):

A gigantic place, amazing things to see...I hope to take the boys back there when they are older and can appreciate it more.

Thanks to Steve for hosting us and making it such an awesome day!

Menu Plan Monday--January 23, 2012

2012-01-22T20:51:00.001-05:00

Sunday: Finally made the Apple Glazed Pork Roast
Monday: Cheesy Chicken Shells
Tuesday: Easy Fried Rice
Wednesday: frozen night (i.e., pizza rolls for the boys, Lean Cuisine for me, Pat at Auto Show)
Thursday: Crock Pot Chicken Tacos
Friday: Tortellini Soup

Have a great week! Thanks for stopping by. :)

Time to Catch Up! Starting with Cillian~

2012-01-20T16:18:00.003-05:00

My sweet little lovable man turned 11 MONTHS OLD on the 18th.
11 M-O-N-T-H-S!
How can that be already?

It's snuck up on me, and it did in fact make me a tad sad he's crossing into toddlerhood soon.
It gave me some extra patience to nurse him in the night...several times a night lately.
To hold him tight, let him make a mess feeding himself, and pull my hair.
Because he's that cute doing it all.

Cillian loves to eat, everything.

His current favorite is Ritz crackers. :) (anyone else think of Harrison Ford in the movie Regarding Henry?)
He gets super excited to see his brothers, loves jumping in his crib, likes having his own room (sniff), enjoys Yo Gabba Gabba, and is so darned desperate to walk. He's getting close....so close.

By this time next month, Cillian will be a ONE YEAR OLD.

It's been an amazing 11 months, all of our hearts have grown, and we're so blessed to have him in our family.

We love you, Cillian!

Menu Plan Monday -- January 16, 2012

2012-01-16T08:36:00.000-05:00

What's the beauty of menu planning before grocery shopping? You have what you need for those planned meals, and some flexibility to change up the menu. :)

That's what I did last week.
I menu plan 10 meals at a time, based on our pay periods. I then make my grocery list based off those 10 meals, file them in my blog, and post weekly. Last week I swapped out a meal from this week, so it's changed. I love shopping for a meal plan, because I should still have all I need for this week's menu.

Last week we never made the Southwestern Pie or the Mexican Pasta Skillet. Instead I made the Teriyaki Sticky Chicken, and we also had an extra day from our beef roast from last week. Both delicious.
This week's tentative menu:

Monday: Leftovers from the weekend

Tuesday: Apple Glazed Pork Roast

Wednesday: ~~Teriyaki Sticky Chicken, rice, broccoli~~ Impossibly Easy Southwestern Pie

Thursday: Healthified Mexican Pasta Skillet

Friday: Super-Easy Cream of Broccoli Soup

Have a great week! Thanks for stopping by. :)

Menu Plan Monday -- January 9, 2012

2012-01-08T20:30:00.000-05:00

Monday: Beef Roast with potatoes, carrots, green beans
Tuesday: Beef Barley Soup with fresh bread
Wednesday: Fried Egg Sandwiches, fruit
Thursday: Healthified Mexican Pasta Skillet
Friday: Impossibly Easy Southwestern Pie

Top 11 of 2011

2012-01-01T10:59:00.000-05:00

In chronological order:

1. We got a 2nd car, after having 1 car for 6 years. Pat's Honda Accord.

2. Aidan's first Pinewood Derby Race with Scouts

3. Cillian was born! Our family & hearts grew, and he's been a huge blessing.

4. The boys' birthdays! Aidan turned 7 and Brennan turned 4...and Pat & I were pleased with the Thomas edible train.

5. Cillian was Baptized

6. Myrtle Beach with my side of the family! Best moment? Dance Party with my sister Sue!

7. Brennan played tee-ball for the first time. Adorable. Aidan played coach-pitch for the first time (& did well batting lefty)

8. Brennan started preschool.

9. Aidan made his First Reconciliation. He's matured so much!

10. We saw more of my parents in 2011 that since the year we got married.

11. Seeing a great friend again, now that he's stationed in Ohio. Steve!

In moments of rough trials it's hard to feel blessed, but in looking back, we were truly blessed in 2011.
I wish you a Happy New Year, and God's peace in 2012!

10 Months Old!

2011-12-19T13:08:00.001-05:00

Cillian, 10 months old already?!

He really is a pleasant-natured baby. He smiles a ton & is usually very happy. He has such a joyous smile, too.

It's his 1st Christmas, and he's enjoyed these first few presents from family.

Happy 10 months, Cillian! Now stop growing up so fast. :)

Looking Forward to the Presence

2011-12-18T21:22:00.000-05:00

I am so excited to go "home" for the holidays.
I've had plenty of moments of getting choked up thinking about. It's hit me at Mass, when certain songs come on the radio, while wrapping presents...

We're going to South Carolina for Christmas. I'll be with my parents, sister & her family, brother & his family, and my boys will get to see their cousins. First time since Brennan was a baby. We see my side of the family usually once a year, so it's exciting. I miss them a ton, especially during the holidays, and it feels like THE present of this season.
My dad will play his accordion, we'll all go to Christmas Eve Mass together, there will be a fire in the fireplace, fondue on the stove, riding the trolley downtown, music from the 40's playing that my parents enjoy.

When it comes down to it, the presence of loved ones, can truly be the best gift.
I am looking forward to the present of the presence.

Brennan's First Christmas Program

2011-12-14T20:17:00.000-05:00

Shame on me for not getting this in last week! I thought I had and I was wrong.
Brennan's program was actually before Aidan's. Brennan's was last Tuesday, and boy was he excited! He very much looked forward to it, he was quite enthusiastic, and it was altogether adorable!

In typical 4yo boy fashion, he might have placed his hands in not the best of places ;).
He also bounced up & down with each song and each time the audience clapped. A few times that meant he tripped off the step he was on.

It was all adorable. Bravo, Brennan!

Menu Plan Monday--December 12, 2011

2011-12-12T19:01:00.000-05:00

Monday: Crock pot Chicken & Dumplings
Tuesday: Pasta Night
Wednesday: Brennan-McD's!
Thursday: Grilled Cheese Sandwiches & Applesauce
Friday: Dinner in Michigan
weekend: tbd
Monday: Honey-Mustard Pork, wild rice, green beans
Tuesday: Pancakes
Wednesday: Leftovers or Fried Egg Sandwiches
Thursday: Leave for South Carolina!

I'm late in posting, but oh well. We're already switching around some meals due to Scouts, last minute shopping, etc. This is our tentative list of meals until Christmas. We'll be using what we have since we're going to South Carolina. :)
Have a good, tasty week!

GREAT weekend

2011-12-12T16:52:00.001-05:00

Another busy & exhausting weekend, but it was wonderful. I feel grateful that several times this weekend, I felt blessed by my family. Grateful with what we currently have.

Friday night was Aidan's school Christmas program. He was first a shepherd and then his class sang a song. He did a wonderful job and I'm amazed by how much he's grown up.

Saturday I did volunteer work, my in-laws took Aidan & Brennan overnight (yes!), and Pat, Cillian & I enjoyed a Christmas party, just adults. It was a very nice party with delicious food.

Sunday we went to 9:00 Mass, the went straight to Michigan. We met up with my in-laws, Aidan & Brennan, Pat's sister and her family, and their cousin. We spent several hours at the Henry Ford Museum.
The boys saw Santa again (awe-some Santa. Awesome) There were train tables, legos, a Wizard of Oz section, and so much more. It was great.

Brennan with his cousin David (below)

inside one of the huge trains

Aidan with Pat's dad

the museum has the Oscar Meyer Weinerbmobile, and near it is this play make-yourself-a-hotdog

The Wizard of Oz exhibit! The entire thing made me think of my sister & get so excited to see her soon.

the witch's bike

The Wizard of Oz, lego edition!

This sign at the museum made me think of my dad. If you know him, you'll get it.

the 5 of us (Cillian was asleep on Pat)

Pat's parents with Aidan & Brennan

Later we visited with just Pat's parents, then headed to his grandparents' house for dinner. It was so nice to see everyone.

This was put up earlier in the week, but I felt it was a good picture to end this post. :) The real reason we have these blessings, and why we gather to celebrate Christmas.

Thank God for a good weekend! I hope yours was nice, as well.

2 weeks (less) until Christmas!

Goosebumps?

2011-12-07T18:37:00.000-05:00

I saw this for the first time a week ago, and it gave me ginormous goosebumps.
It's similar to the Advent Conspiracy videos in that it focuses on what Christmas is truly about.

Dang, that's good, isn't it?
The part when Jesus is a newborn crying...whoa.

I couldn't resist sharing. Let me know what you think.

Busy, Fun & Festive Weekend

2011-12-06T09:59:00.000-05:00

The weekend was busy, exhausting & fun! Every weekend in December seems to be turning into this, but hey, that's the holidays, right?

The weekend kicked off with our parish family group night: dinner, kids go off for activities, adults stay for fellowship, prayer, Advent discussion, and then we all come back together for dessert. We're establishing some good friendships and we are really enjoying this group. We watched 2 Advent Conspiracy videos. Ever see them? Here's a good one:

Did it give you goosebumps? Totally did for me.

Saturday I did some volunteer work (more on that to come), and then we drove into MI to go see our niece in the Nutcracker. I was the only one to go see the performance (with my sil & bil), and it was so much fun. She was a baker and did a great job. I love the music for The Nutcracker, and I've always found Russian to be my favorite. And Fritz. Just love it!

Sunday was nasty weather. Rain, rain, chilly, just bla. Still, the boys had letters for Santa, so we went to see him! We're fortunate to have a place near us that lets you see Santa at no charge, including using your own camera for pictures.

Telling Santa what's on their list

Cillian's 1st visit to Santa!

Our 3 handsome boys

the tree we get excited to see each year

Santa Baby ;)

We have a tradition of taking each boy to pick out an ornament each year. What they pick should reflect their interests for that year. Brennan was beyond excited to pick his this year. After 2 Hallmarks being sold out, we lucked out at Kohl's, buying the last one, the display model! SPIDERMAN ornament! He was so excited, it made it all worth it.

The boys decorating their mini tree in their room

There you have it. A very busy, fun, festive weekend. :)

Bath Time!

2011-12-04T09:52:00.000-05:00

I realized the other day that I have no pictures of Cillian in the bath.
Say what?! (in my best Gus voice from Psych)

If you notice the foggy water, that's because he was having an oatmeal bath for a diaper rash.
This little cutie was enjoying his tub time!

Are You a Control Freak?

2011-12-01T16:33:00.001-05:00

In some ways I am, but not as bad as Monica from Friends or Julia from Parenthood.

I like my days mentally planned out, especially the weekends.
I like my Christmas shopping to be nearly finished by the start of Advent.
You get the idea.

Reading this on Facebook:
"...conversion would not have been possible without absolute trust in Him and the recognition that I had to give up control and experience the death of my old self." Randy Hain writes on the ongoing need to surrender to God's will. What are the obstacles? Does out need to be in control get in the way?"
(you can read the post in its entirety here)

Ding!Ding! It's not a fun thing to think about, those parts of ourselves we need to accept the mental death of. You know what's inside of you that's in need of going away. I know what I struggle with. I want more for me & my family, even though our needs are met. I see others succeeding, and immediately wonder why God is ignoring that prayer of ours.

Is that how HE wants me to think and feel? I certainly do not think so. That way of thinking needs to die, surrender to God's will, and grow into a more Christ-like way of thinking. Is it possible while on earth? I don't know, but I know we must try.

My inner control-freak wants to know who-what-when-where-how-and why, right away. I would happily look at my life's road map of the future, if given the chance.
I pray, and I want to immediately know if and how and when that prayer will be answered.

We are called to die to ourselves, putting to rest those bad habits or sinful ways we have within us. It will always be something that we struggle with, as is human nature. But to try, truly try, is rising above and using courage to follow HIS plan.

What a perfect thing to focus on during Advent. Christ's birth, and a new birth within us.
"Laboring" isn't easy, but the end result makes it worth it.

The Chosen Ornament Is...

2011-11-30T16:41:00.001-05:00

Christmases 1-5 my kids are given an ornament, typically Hallmark's Child Age Collection.

Once Aidan hit his 6th Christmas, it changed into him picking out an ornament for that year, to show for something he was interested in that year.

This year's ornament:

Tom & Jerry!
I personally love it. Love it.
The boys watch a lot of Tom & Jerry, it's classic, and I favored it as a kid, too.
I am happy with his choice. :)
Tonight it goes on the tree!

Today is of Many Scenes

2011-11-29T17:03:00.001-05:00

The Elf on the Shelf has joined our family this year. His name? The boys decided on "Charlie Claus ourlastname". This morning they found him sitting atop the blinds near our table, looking out into the backyard.

A good scene from today: Brennan working on his math, the fun style of muffin tin-pom pom -tongs manipulative. He had a blast sorting the pom poms at first, then we moved on to a counting exercise.

He took it very seriously, and was proud of himself for knowing "0" meant to put nothing in that section. I love that my boys love math!

And our backyard, a not-so-great scene. We've had horrific rain, which is starting to combine with snow/sleet/hail. Our backyard is flooding, only getting worse each hour. This was earlier today. Pictured below is normally the little paved patio section.

Blurry, but you can see how the water surrounds our shed and is getting worse. Ugh.

But hey, beef stroganoff for dinner, a Christmas tree to decorate, and it makes it much nicer inside than outside.
I'm hoping we don't wake to a delay or anything tomorrow...they say we might get 1-2 inches of snow tonight, and hit freezing temps.

Hope it's dry where you are!

What's on YOUR Christmas List?

2011-11-29T12:05:00.000-05:00

Not the list of what to get others, your kids, or anyone else. But YOU.
What's on YOUR Christmas list?

I'm nearly done shopping for my kids and husband, my parents, and we know what we're doing for my in-laws (just yet to do so). We'll need to get the teachers' gifts, but most is done. YES!!

There are always a million things on my mental Christmas/Birthday/Mothers' Day/Anniversary lists.

Isn't that life?

If money was not an issue, I'd love to ask for a new area rug for my living room. I'd love candle wall sconces and a nice oval mirror for the living room, also a wall clock.

I'd love a new bedding set.

A laminator.

A new CAR! (are you laughing yet?)

I would love to get my husband an iphone, ipad, and maybe a kindle if he was interested.

None of those will be gifts received this year. Some days that bums me out, but in reality, we have all that we need, some of what we want, and a beautiful family.

Truly, the best gifts....presents...can be presence.

I am thrilled to be going to SC for Christmas, and enjoy the presence with family we don't see often.

I am hopeful for time with my husband.

I have kids that make me pictures and cards, pouring their little hearts into it.

That is priceless.

Worth far more than the cost of an area rug, wall clock, ipad, or iphone.

I need to remember this attitude, this gratitude, when I finish my shopping.

(But I still want to know what is on your list!;)

Happy Thanksgiving!

2011-11-26T11:29:00.000-05:00

I'm a day late, probably a dollar short, but thankful nonetheless!

Thanksgiving was at my in-laws' this year. The food was delicious, the drinks were plentiful, and the company lovely. We ate a ton, drank a bit much, and it was a great day. Cillian's 1st Thanksgiving, by the way. :)

Making it even better, our good friend Steve joined us. His company was a true blessing!

The food was so good. Here is a quick picture of the turkey:

Yum.
We watched a lot of the Macy's parade, ate gigantic cinnamon rolls for breakfast, had friends & family, all for making a wonderful holiday.
I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving!

I'm Hooked on This, and Therefore Thankful

2011-11-23T09:30:00.000-05:00

Oh my heavens, I am so hooked on this snack right now and very grateful for it.

It's just deliciously addicting. Sweet & salty, so so good...

In the Month of Giving Thanks...

2011-11-22T13:51:00.001-05:00

I'm finding it hard to be positive & happy. I know I am blessed and am thankful for those things.
Lately my mind plays tricks on me, disabling me from seeing the good, and only noticing the bad.

I feel guilty over not brining in any income. Then I absurdly panic over the fact that there is no money to my own name.

I complain of our small house. I am so very frustrated by the tiny house that is ours, the lack of space, which truly prohibits me from organizing well.

I get irked by the garage being our only storage, which has resulted in us never, not even once, parking our car in there. Always more annoying in these months of needing to warm up the car.

I get frustrated at praying & looking for opportunities to increase our income, decrease our spending, and to save so we can buy a car and bigger house. Almost a year after my husband graduated with his MBA, and nadda. I don't want to give up on the prayer, but obviously it's doing nothing.

Cillian is a horrible sleeper at night. As in for the past month or so, I kid you not, he's been waking 8-10 times. It is beyond exhausting and excruciating, and I envy my husband's ability to sleep through any crying. On both Cillian's end and mine.

I hate cry-it-out, yet nothing else seems to work.

I'm annoyed by the school and some changes this year. I love my kids and want what's best for them, and I'm not so sure our current school is the answer to that.

I used to be disciplined and diligent in exercising and eating well.
Not any more. I suck.

I hate money. And not sleeping.

See? I told you I'm having a hard time giving thanks.
I always get "homesick" this time of year for my side of the family, too, and it makes me feel more lonely and a bit sad.

I should slap myself & snap out of it, I know. But this is a way of venting; maybe it will help me gain a more positive perspective.
I want to feel thankful. I want to see what is right in front of me as a blessing, not an annoyance.

Tell me: what do you do when you feel like this?

9 Months Old!

2011-11-19T09:39:00.000-05:00

I'm in disbelief that Cillian is already 9 months old, but he is!
Though not a fan of sleeping, he is adorable and quite the happy baby (unless we dare change his diaper or confine him in any way).

Happy 9 Months, Cillian!
We Love You so much!!

Below you can see his blond hair coming in

His favorite thing to do: crawling under the table

Cillian loves to pull up to standing, and we think he's adorable in his jeans

about to step over to the exersaucer

Part of the Reason I Love Fall

2011-11-18T14:00:00.000-05:00

A to Z...I'm a Copycat

2011-11-15T19:12:00.000-05:00

I clicked over to my good friend Bethany's blog today, and she did this fun little A to Z post.
Acknowledging that imitation is a form of flattery ;), I copied Bethany and did one, too.

A to Z

A. Age: 31.
B. Bed size: Queen, though I'm ready for a King. Never thought I'd want a King, but add in a few kids, and I'd happily take it!
C. Chore that you hate: Cleaning the bathroom. Every gross detail, especially with me being the only girl in the house.
D. Dogs: Prefer them to cats, but we don't have one.
E. Essential start of your day: coffee in the morning.
F. Favorite color: Sage green.
G. Gold or Silver: Silver
H. Height: 5’4
I. Instruments you play: sadly, none. I wish I could play the violin.
J. Job: I'm a stay-at-home-mom.
K. Kids: 3 living boys, ages 7.5, 4.5, and almost 9 months. 2 in heaven.
L. Live: Ohio
M. Mother’s name: Dottie
N. Nicknames: Sharona, Canary, Birdie
O. Overnight hospital stays: When I delivered my babies, and 5 days for kidney stones while pregnant with Brennan.
P. Pet peeves: people chewing w/ their mouths open, and NOT drying off a little over the tub, before stepping onto the bath mat.
Q. Quote from movie: "I like smiling, smiling's my favorite!"
R. Right or left-handed. Right
S. Siblings: 7 --5 brothers, 2 sisters.
T. Tattoos: no tramp stamp on me!
U. Underwear: fresh pair every day.
V. Vegetable you hate: Brussels sprouts
W. What makes you run late: Nursing a baby or changing the diaper of an escape artist.
X. X-rays you’ve had: Umm...ultrasounds?
Y. Yummy food you make: I'd rather have my family answer this one, but I'll say roast chicken or beef, chicken parmesan, potato soup.
Z. Zoo animal: Polar Bears

Monday Meanderings

2011-11-14T12:13:00.000-05:00

There should be a law against rainy Mondays.
Mondays are heard enough, starting another week filled with work and obligations...rain is no help.
If I could control the weather, there would be no rain on Mondays.
I did manage to already clean my room, the bathroom, put away a load of laundry, get another washed, and load the dishwasher.
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It's a busy week. It's Red Ribbon Week at school.
Tomorrow Aidan has a Scout meeting, and a friend is coming home with him to ride with us for Scouts.
Wednesday I have a meeting in the morning, then later I'm helping to prep stuff for Secret Santa at school.
Thursday Pat has Lifeteen, and then Friday is the parish Feather Party! And then holy smokes, it's already a week until Thanksgiving! How did that happen so fast?!
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I don't have a menu planned for this week. I looked in my kitchen, and this is my general idea:
Scrambled egg & sausage sandwiches on English Muffins.
Italian Rice & Beans or Refried Beans over rice.
Crock pot creamy chicken.
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I'm still feeling "homesick" lately for my side of the family. I am looking forward to going to SC for Christmas.
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Speaking of Christmas, the stores area already chaotic and filling with rude, greedy customers. I want to finish my shopping asap.I need to get the game Sorry, some books for the kids, and I want to get them one of the Lego games. I really want to not do this alone. I'd love to leave the kids with the sitter and Pat & I go together. Think it will happen?
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How's your Monday? What's on your agenda for this week?

Giving Thanks

2011-11-11T08:59:00.000-05:00

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I'm sharing things in my life I am thankful for.

It's always easy to remember the big things (home to live in, job, etc), but I find more value in the smaller things. The everyday things that so easily feel mundane after a while, or unimportant.

I am thankful for my husband getting up with the kids each morning.
Though it's frustrated me lately, I am thankful for the ability to still nurse Cillian, especially as it seems to be very comforting for him this week.
I'm thankful for a trip to see a sister-in-law and cousins yesterday.
The boys being off of school today & yesterday.
Good dinners we've made at home.
Positive comments about Aidan & Brennan at parent-teacher conferences.
Starting my Christmas shopping.
Aidan making his 1st Reconciliation.
Our church having perpetual Adoration.
A new niece born this week!

There is plenty more I am thankful for, but that's a good list so far. :)

I love the month of November, especially Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, and we are blessed to have so much to be thankful for.

It's not always easy to acknowledge the good when there is so much to stress us out. I hope you can see some of the reasons you have to be thankful.

Another Milestone: First Reconciliation

2011-11-09T12:21:00.000-05:00

We sat in the church pews, waiting for Aidan's turn to enter the confessional.

I looked over at him, as he nervously sat, trying to pray and relax.
In his dress pants and dress shirt, neatly tucked in, belt on and nicer shoes on.

He looked mature, all of a sudden, and more grown up.
Not like the kid who started at our parish school 2.5 years ago.
A bigger kid, now grown and mature, understanding things on a deeper level.

First Reconciliation doesn't get the same hype as Baptism and First Communion, understandably so.
But it's still important. It's still a Sacrament, and a wonderful opportunity to learn about mercy and infinite love.

I think I'll always feel a bit choked up as my children receive another Sacrament.
Aidan making his First Reconciliation is no different.
I am proud of him, and welcome this new part of his life where he can now join us for Confession.

Halloween 2011

2011-11-05T12:03:00.000-04:00

Cillian's 1st Halloween, too. :)

Halloween was colder this year, and by the time October 31 actually arrived, we were kind of burned out from trick-or-treating. Sad, isn't it?
It was our FOURTH Halloween event.
We had trick-or-treated at an outdoor mall, in the downtown of the city where the school is, and at our parish event. By Monday night, the boys were just drained and the excitement wore off.
Now I know: next year, we skip some of the business events! (gladly)

Halloween was still fun, of course. We did our Mummy Dogs for dinner, hit the good houses, and watched some of It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown once back home.
See for yourself how adorable my boys were (no bias, of course;):

My little pumpkin on his 1st Halloween

Brennan as "Luigi"

My 3 boys

one of my favorites

Aidan as "Mario"

Pat & his boys

Me with my Little Men

Our jack-o-lantern. Aidan drew it on this year!

I hope you had a wonderful Halloween!

A New Tradition for All Saints Day

2011-11-03T09:38:00.000-04:00

Spaghetti & Meatballs!
We had this on Tuesday, and I have to say, my meatballs were quite good. It was a delicious dinner!

Why Spaghetti & Meatballs for All Saints Day?
I have two Catholic cookbooks that have been given to me, and I was in a menu-planning rut. I have never used these cookbooks before, but I picked them up to see what they suggest that goes with All Saints Day.

According to Building the Family Cookbook, All Saints Day became formalized in the year 731 (dang that's some time ago). The Pope then (Pope Gregory III) consecrated a chapel at St. Peter's Church, honoring all the Saints. The fest day was started in Rome and of course is still celebrated there. In the book Suzanne Fowler writes, "what could be more Italian and Roman" than spaghetti & meatballs? I agree!
So alas, a great tasting, kid-pleasing meal will now be our tradition on All Saints Day. :)

Another fun thing: during dinner we looked up each Saint and learned about his life again. The kids really enjoyed reading about their Saints, and it was one of those good family moments. If you already know the Saint of your first name, try looking up your middle name, or another relative's name.

Spaghetti & Meatballs: our new All Saints Day tradition.

Menu Plan Monday--October 31, 2011

2011-10-30T23:13:00.000-04:00

Happy Halloween!! October has just flown by here, and of course it's going out with a bang. School parties for the boys, their day ending in an all-school parade with the kids in costumes, and then trick-or-treating tonight from 6-8 p.m. We'll go out, then enjoy some candy & watch The Great Pumpkin. :)

Sunday: Crock pot pork roast & apples (this was DELICIOUS!)
Monday: Mummy Dogs (w/o the cheese) & Noodle Soup (in celebration of Halloween)
Tuesday: Spaghetti & Meatballs, salad (in honor of All Saints Day)
Wednesday: Sandwich Night (1st Reconciliation mtg)
Thursday: Frozen Pizza, fruit (Lifteen night)
Friday: Potato-Leek Soup, bread rolls

Amen

2011-10-19T12:02:00.000-04:00

Several sources have shared words I needed to read lately, so I thought I'd share:

Sunday's meditation from Word Among Us

"You may feel as small as a penny at times, but you should never sell yourself short. In the day-to-day interchange of ideas, relationships, and feelings, you have a vital role to play. You can give a living witness to the joy and promise of a life lived under Jesus’ authority. Yes, you may need to be cleaned up, but don’t stop there. Now that you shine, go out and reflect the light that has filled your soul!"

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From Crosswalk.com
"Do you ever get tired of waiting on God to answer your prayers? Recently, I began to feel a sense of frustration with the wait, and also a little bit tired.

Tired of saying the same old prayer day after day, month after month, year after year. Tired of telling God about the same old problems still going on. Tired of hearing myself pray about the same old problems, leading me to wonder if God was as tired of hearing my prayer requests as I was of praying them.

So I bowed my head and admitted to God that I was simply tired of the wait."

If you are tired of the wait, you may be pleading to God just like Isaac. It may take twenty years for God to answer our prayers, or it may only take twenty minutes. But today, let us find comfort in remembering Isaac's patient faith and take hope in believing that God is not tired of hearing our prayers. Instead, He is simply waiting for the perfect time to answer.

Dear Lord, please help me have patience and faith while I wait to hear from You. Help me live in excited anticipation for the day when I will see how You answer my prayers. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

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"Taking the time to build relationships sometimes means pushing ourselves out of our own little world. Having friends is fun of course, but it’s also an important part of maintaining our sanity and of building the Church." (from Faith & Family Live's blog)

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I have no clue why it's appearing highlighted in some parts, and I couldn't correct it. It's still worthwhile!

My Little Pumpkin is 8 Months Old!

2011-10-18T09:53:00.000-04:00

It's been the fastest 8 months of my life.
He's a sleep-resisting blessing to our life, and we all just love him so much!

At 8 months, Cillian is:

-enjoying solid foods, especially the Puffs and Sweet Potatoes with cinnamon

-Trying to take his first steps

-LOVES watching his big brothers. He smiles for them instantly

-He's around 15 pounds
-NEVER stops moving. Crawls constantly, and he's fast. Pulls up to standing all the time.
-He likes to feed himself, and is proud of his big messes
-Is happiest during family dinner, when we're all together
-He has 4 teeth, seems to be cutting 1 or 2 more

Cillian,
You're a true joy, even on the most tiring of days.
You have the best, bashful smile, and you're a huge blessing.
It's gone by so fast, almost a little too fast.
We are so grateful God gave us you, and look forward to all of your milestones.
We love you!
Mommy

Menu Plan Monday--October 17, 2011

2011-10-17T09:30:00.000-04:00

Sunday: Spaghetti w/ meat sauce, garlic bread, salad
Monday: Slow Cooker Bean & Corn Chili, corn muffins (Brennan's 1st field trip)
Tuesday: Skillet Garlic Chicken, Rice, Broccoli
Wednesday: Hamburger Cabbage Casserole
Thursday: Sloppy Joes, carrots, chips
Friday: Potato Soup

Today's Satisfaction

2011-10-11T16:46:00.000-04:00

Going to Sam's Club with my list and $80 cash to spend, and my bill totaling $79.83. :)

Having homemade Corn Chowder to eat, and homemade banana bread.

My house smelling good (see above).

Remembering to do morning prayer with my boys this morning, to offer our day to God. It really makes a difference.

My husband squeezed in his run over his lunch break, which means he doesn't have to run after work. :)

It's the little things in life.
What are your small blessings today?

Menu Plan Monday--October 10, 2011

2011-10-10T12:40:00.000-04:00

Monday: Baked Pumpkin Oatmeal
Tuesday: Corn Chowder
Wednesday: Italian Style Rice & Beans
Thursday: Sandwich Night
Friday: Chili with Beans and Corn

It's Worth the Half Hour

2011-10-06T09:32:00.001-04:00

Several people on Facebook had posted this, so yesterday I finally watched it.

I am glad that I did.

The first few minutes into it, I was beyond shocked and appalled that these youthful people did not even know who HITLER was. That was disturbing in & of itself.

The way this was lead, though, made it worthwhile. The change...the angle.
The TRUTH.

It made me grateful for the education I've received, the people in my life that value LIFE, and especially grateful for the opportunity I had to tour Auschwitz and Birkenau.

I will confess this: I've always been pro-life, yes. But it wasn't until I visited Auschwitz that it started to "personalize" for me. The fire's flame was lit then, so to speak.

Please watch this. It's truly eye-opening and amazing.

Menu Plan Monday--October 3, 2011

2011-10-02T08:18:00.002-04:00

Yeah, yeah, Menu Plan Monday on Sunday.
That's because I want to share today's delicious new recipe! :)

I bought a whole chicken for the first time. Maybe that's surprising, but bones, skin-on, and that much rawness kind of gross me out. (to my credit, I've done a big fat turkey)
The price, however, is very appealing. And it's pretty when it's all cooked, surrounded by the tasty carrots and potatoes. It's comfort-food, and Sundays are good for comfort food. Especially when the low temp dips into the 30's at night!

Sunday: Rubbed Down, Slow Cooked Chicken, potatoes, carrots (check it w/ a meat thermometer & no worries)
Monday: Delicious Potato Soup (it's seriously delicious. It doesn't even taste an ounce of low-fat.)
Tuesday: Teriyaki Sticky Chicken, rice, steamed broccoli

Wednesday: Slow Cooker Chili w/ corn muffins
Thursday: Leftover Chili over Baked Potatoes
Friday: Refried Beans over Rice, topped with cheese & sour cream if you fancy

My hubby is off to a Notre Dame football game over the weekend! I hope he has a great time visiting with old friends. The boys & I will be making some fun fall crafts to decorate our home. :)
Happy Fall!!

My Heart Smiles

2011-10-01T12:41:00.001-04:00

When my boys show love between them...

When my oldest leads his younger brothers...

When my middle son is not afraid of his baby brother...

When the baby purely enjoys the company of his big brothers...

Stand Up for What is Right, Even If You Stand Alone

2011-09-22T09:44:00.001-04:00

My 9th grade English teacher had this poster in her classroom. It sticks with me to this day.

The other night I was at an event our parish was hosting: An Evening of Reflection and Prayer for 40 Days for Life.
It was over an hour of prayer, including Benediction, Adoration, hymns sung in Latin...it was simply beautiful.

In my head I kept hearing "Stand up for what is right, even if you stand alone".

Looking around the room, you'd praise God for not being alone. There were maybe 20 of us there.
We were together, not having to stand alone, united in prayer, preparing our hearts to take action.

What we came to stand for? LIFE.

Call it what you want: a zygote, embryo, fetus, BABY (HUMAN), they are alone.
They have no person to fight for them, especially in the sad circumstances of their own parents hoping to end their very life.
Abortion.

When you can't even count on the womb--the very first home--to be a safe haven, when you can't even count on that, it's beyond sad, and it's our moral responsibility to take a stand.
We stand together to fight for their LIVES. The basic right to live & breathe.
Those babies-HUMANS-with beating hearts, they are not able to even stand up alone to fight for their own lives. Their very life, before even having the chance to live it, is threatened.

I don't live in a perfect world without trials & tribulations, I don't come from money and I certainly acknowledge that there are bad people in this world. Things happen that emotionally scar people, such as rape.
Research it, though, and you'll learn that the majority of abortion cases are not a result of rape, despite what Planned Parenthood would like us to believe.
Even in the event of rape, the wrong person would be receiving punishment (the baby), and that is not just. Two wrongs do not make a right.

I could go on that rant forever, citing actual facts about abortion, post pictures to imprint in your brain the horror that it is.

Instead, I'll plead that in some form, you take action.
Yes, YOU.
Start with prayer.
Pray for the moms considering abortion. Those moms feel hopeless, scared, unsure. They rely on abortion as a last result.
Pray for them and their babies. Pray for the father of those babies, so that they may be men that do not threaten the lives of the mothers and/or babies, inflict violence, threaten to leave them if...

Pray for the resources needed to choose LIFE to become apparent in the lives of these women.
Adoption options, pregnancy centers that offer classes, free baby items, etc.
Pray these things will make themselves known to these women.

If prayer is the only thing you can do, so be it. After all, it's communication with God-it's a great thing.

Let's say you can do more (and I suspect most of you can).

Check out the 40 Days for Life site and see if you can sign up to participate.

Gather items to donate to a pregnancy center.
Make a straight financial donation.

Educate yourself in the matters necessary that deal with our political front, such as the Heartbeat Bill.
When the time comes, VOTE responsibly.

There is so much a person can do. You don't need a lot of time or money (I have neither), but a desire in your heart.

Stand up for what is right.
I would stand alone, but thank God I don't have to.
Together let's stand up for those who are alone.
For the babies. For the pregnant mothers. So many of them feel alone or are alone.

Join me in taking a stand.

White Flag Waving

2011-09-19T19:29:00.000-04:00

*Caution: whine included. Reading this may result in wanting some real wine.*

Can I kick & scream, yell "it's not fair!", and cry?
I can't?

Well, then, accept this as me waving my white flag. Wildly waving it.
I'm waving it for God.

I give up! I surrender!
I've tried to find what gets HIS attention, and it seems I've failed.
Why?
Because in our efforts to communicate with Him, we're getting the same ol', same ol'.
Isn't that almost the definition of insanity?

I know, I know, God hears our prayers, maybe He wants just the life we have for us, bla bla bla.

I'm telling ya, I'm waving my flag.
I give up on the prayers I've been praying, because Lord knows there seems to be know ~~relief~~ answer!

Waving that flag....yes I am. Wondering what others are doing to get His attention so well, what we're doing wrong, and how long until the answer is known.

Ugh.

Yes, a bla feeling on a rainy bla Monday.

A wise person today told me "Keep the Faith". I know, deep down, that those are very wise words.
Erroneous not one bit.
While my glass appears half empty, I'll try to look at it for a moment as half full, and Keep the Faith.
It's not feeling easy, but Faith matters, right?

Menu Plan Monday--September 19, 2011

2011-09-19T19:18:00.002-04:00

Monday: Crock Pot Santa Fe Chicken over rice
Tuesday: Leftover burgers & baked beans
Wednesday: Chicken Primavera with Pasta (Happy Birthday to Erin!!)
Thursday: Grilled Cheese, apple slices
Friday: Easy Fried Rice

One of the Reasons I'm Glad to Stay Home

2011-09-15T10:05:00.000-04:00

I'd miss a lot of this:

For the record, shiny bowls are exciting. ;)

It Makes My Heart Ache

2011-09-14T16:59:00.001-04:00

When you hurt my son's feelings, you hurt mine, too.

When you make fun of him, I feel that, too.
When you exclude him, I feel it, too.

Today my heart aches for my son.
Things are a bit different in his social circle this year at school, and today he came home a bit saddened.
He's a sensitive person to begin with, but nonetheless, his feelings were hurt, and I hate it when he's truly sad.
Throughout the course of the day, someone made fun of the shirt he wore to gym. Being really into Pokemon right now, it made him bummed out (it was a Pokemon shirt...a time when I wish they also had gym uniforms!).

The bigger thing is that a good friend of his told him "you're not my best friend anymore".

Oh boy...

How do you comfort your child? At this age, for my kid, it feels like a break up, in a way.
Yet I know their interests aren't 100% the same, and he's made new friends, too.
Still, being told "you're not my best friend anymore"? Oh how that makes me want to go all ninja on a person or two.

I'm hoping tomorrow he can talk to this kid and straighten things out.
More importantly, I know the importance of continuing to pray for good friends in his life, and for him to be a good friend, too.

When he hurts, it makes me hurt.
And I don't like it.

The Simple Woman's Daybook, September 13

2011-09-13T11:23:00.000-04:00

FOR TODAY Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Outside my window...it's sunny, with a light breeze. It's also trash day, so the curb is lined with trash cans waiting to be emptied.

I am thinking...that I am tired, and I'd love a McD's caramel mocha. Also that I need to work with my 4yo on writing his name.

I am thankful...for my husband getting up each morning with the kids, so I can get some sleep.

From the learning rooms...Brennan working on his numbers with counting frogs.

In the kitchen...an almost empty coffee pot, dishes that need to get in the dishwasher, and the smell of toast.

I am wearing...jean capris, flip flops, and a gray 3/4-length shirt.

I am creating...a grocery list and menu plan.

I am going...to school later today to pick up my 7yo.

I am wondering...if prayers will be answered sooner than later.

I am reading...news online. That's it for right now. (shameful, I know)

I am hoping...to stay on program today with Weight Watchers and eat well.

I am looking forward to...the weekend. And vegging out with my husband tonight.

I am hearing...the baby monitor, my 4yo watching "Day of the Diesels", and a car passing by.

Around the house...I need to vacuum and dust, and like always, declutter. Put away laundry.

I am pondering...what to make for dinner next week.

One of my favorite things...Fall weather.

A few plans for the rest of the week: grocery shopping, going to MI on Saturday.

Here is picture for thought I am sharing...

The reason I am tired, and the reason it's all worth it

1st Day of Preschool!

2011-09-08T13:34:00.001-04:00

While I'm still getting over the shock that Brennan, my Brennan, started preschool yesterday, I thought I'd share some of the pictures.
This kid is at a stage of being photogenically-challenged...ha! But he's just adorable.

Ready to go!

Bashful

Spiderman backpack and Spiderman shoes!

checking out his classroom

Brennan finished his first day of school with a big smile on his face, excited to go back on Friday.

Thank God for the gift of a good first day!

By the way, the day before, when we dropped off Aidan at school, I did cry the entire way home. I kept it together on his actual first day, but boy was he missed! Having 2 in school, gone during the day, feels so weird. A little empty.

I'm glad at least Brennan was home today. :) We had fun making homemade muffins!

Menu Plan Monday--September 5, 2011

2011-09-05T09:14:00.001-04:00

Sunday: Ground Beef Enchiladas
Monday: Grill out *Labor Day*
Tuesday: Smothered Chicken in Gravy over biscuits
Wednesday: Pita Pizzas (Brennan's choice for his 1st day of preschool!)
Thursday: Grilled Cheese Sandwiches
Friday: Appetizer Night! Baked Zucchini Sticks, Southwestern Black Bean Salad,

My 3 at 6 months

2011-09-04T19:29:00.002-04:00

In order: Aidan, Brennan & Cillian.
Each boy has his own look, but you can certainly tell they're brothers,

can't you?

I'm at War

2011-09-02T09:35:00.000-04:00

With Peanut Butter.
The girl on the left? Yeah, she's the one with all the willpower to say NO to peanut butter.
The one who reads the label each time, walking away in shock at 16g fat for 2 tablespoons.
The good girl who acknowledges how much time she needs to exercise to burn off that peanut butter.

The little devil on the right?
Oh my, that is the one who, all week, has convinced me it's worth it.
The one who taught me how delicious a slice of peanut butter toast goes with coffee. The gooey, melted peanut butter goes so, so well with warm coffee. The coffee streams through the film in your mouth that the peanut butter laid there. They coordinate so nicely together, coffee and peanut butter toast.

The little devil also has me enjoying a scoop (or 2...or 3...let's be honest here) of peanut butter stirred with some chocolate syrup, ya know, to curb a chocolate craving.

This has been my war on peanut butter.
I try to avoid it, then I fail & indulge.
It's been oh so good, yet oh so bad for me.
I need to stop losing the battles and win this damn war.

Only now, I think it's to the point where I need back-up.

Me: 0 Peanut Butter: 5

Goodbye August. September, Welcome!

2011-08-31T20:25:00.002-04:00

Starts fall, my favorite season
Enjoying cooler weather
Planning for school activities, 2 kids now in school
Time to celebrate birthdays: brother, brother-in-law, sister, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, & nephew
Evaluate what's in this house & declutter. Happy New School Year
Make plans for those holidays: Halloween, Thanksgiving & yes, Christmas
Bake pumpkin spice muffins. Delicious
Eat said muffins, along with candied apples and homemade apple pie
Rest up, with darkness falling earlier & earlier. Recall summer, which officially ends in 21 days.

Clocking Out

2011-08-29T19:17:00.000-04:00

I'm clocking out.
Well, not really, since I'm home.
But instead of doing what I should be doing, (walking for exercise, cleaning up dinner), I'm opting for early pajamas, red wine, and playing Ms. PacMan.

My mind feels heavily consumed by stressful thoughts today. From finances, to schooling/homeschooling, exhaustion, gaining weight too easily, working hard to lose weight & not, having a small house, not working, being a SAHM, the value or de-value in said choices....all of these things are floating in my head today.
Heavily.

I'd love to scream, run, and hide in a gigantic bowl of creamy ice cream and hot fudge.
Not having that, I'm settling for a night in with kids in bed (asleep? That's another story), a glass of wine, and my friend Ms. PacMan awaiting.

As much as I can, I am clocking out early today.
Hopefully those heavy thoughts will clock out, too.

Menu Plan Monday--August 29, 2011

2011-08-28T11:16:00.000-04:00

Sunday: Grilled Eckrich Sausage, potato rounds, veggies
Monday: Ground Beef Stroganoff (similar recipe; I adapt using my mom's version, which uses cream of chicken soup).
Tuesday: Pasta Night (meatless)
Wednesday: Sausage, eggs, toast & fruit
Thursday: Crock pot Tacos (black beans for us)
Friday: Frozen Night due to First Friday/Pat working

Menu Plan Monday...on Sunday. :) Have a wonderful week!

Fill Me with Joy

2011-08-26T12:33:00.001-04:00

What's your source of joy today?

Second Grade!

2011-08-25T20:24:00.000-04:00

Hi, I'm the mom who takes too many pictures of my kids. ;)
Monday was Back-to-School Night. My kids happily went, saw the renovations at their school, met their teachers, dropped off their school supplies, and caught up with friends. Above is Aidan unpacking at his seat. I'll say this: his teacher this year is super organized & I am impressed!
Notice (above) his name in yellow on the table? Their table is the yellow table, which coordinates with the yellow section of the closet for backpacks, etc. Smart lady, his teacher.

Yesterday was Aidan's 1st day of school...of 2nd grade.
Aside from the lump in my throat, it was exciting to take him. He was looking forward to it and all in all, he had a great first day. I'm still in denial that it's back-to-school season, but hopefully this is the start of a very good year. (but at any given moment, I'm on board to homeschool!;)

Aidan & Cillian

all 3 of my precious boys (fighting over who gets to hold most of Cillian)

Aidan--2nd grader!

outside his classroom (greatly annoyed w/ me by this point at taking pictures)

Even Patrick joined us in taking him on the 1st day.

It felt weird when Brennan & I returned home, but we enjoyed some school work, crafts, and making a surprise treat for Aidan on his first day of school: snow brownies (brownies sprinkled w/ powdered sugar).

Here is to the 2011-2012 school year!

Be Still, My Heart

2011-08-23T22:25:00.000-04:00

School starts tomorrow for Aidan.
My mind is going a mile a minute, perhaps even more.

He's a 2nd grader...2nd grader already.
He's getting old & big & more & more comfortable away from home.
He's learning cursive this year, receiving his First Reconciliation and First Communion.
He & Brennan have become such good friends this summer.
Will that change w/ school starting back? Please God, don't let it.
Will his friends from last year still be good friends for him?
Will he make any new friends
His teacher seems great. I hope she gets my sweet, sensitive son.
Brennan will miss him. He'll suddenly seem even older to me, being the "big kid" at home.
Aidan was a huge help this summer, with Cillian and Brennan.
Brennan will have to learn to cut open his own gogurt.
Who will Brennan play with?
Will Aidan be comfortable?
Will Brennan be happy?
Will Cillian finally get back on a good schedule?
My heart is heavy, my throat with a lump.
I hope we like the new principal.
I hope she cracks down on the dress code.
Summer is unofficially over. Already.

My mind is racing with oh so many thoughts.
I feel anxious for tomorrow, for the school year.
I am so going to miss Aidan being home all day, I'll miss watching he & Brennan play, entertaining Cillian.
I want to just hold them tighter, longer, and not let them go.
God, give me the strength to let go, and please bring me a sense of peace in doing so.

Menu Plan Monday--August 22, 2011

2011-08-22T01:26:00.000-04:00

Monday: Dinner at school for Back to School Night (thank you Lifeteen!)
Tuesday: Meatloaf Muffins, green beans, potatoes
Wednesday: Hot Dogs, baked beans, chips, salad (Aidan's choice-his 1st day of school)
Thursday: Chicken Fajitas in the Crock Pot
Friday: Pancakes for dinner (Boys' Night)

I'm in complete denial that school starts back this week. I don't feel ready, and I'm not ready for my boys to be gone so much.
Still, here is hoping for a great school year filled with many good experiences!

6ix Months!

2011-08-18T20:55:00.000-04:00

My little cutie-patootie is already half a year old.

HOW?
It's flying by.
He is active during his days, crawling, gnawing on anything & everything...smiling at his brothers.

It honestly, truly does not seem like it's been 6 months. At the same time, I can't think of our life without him. He's a sleep-depriving blessing, we love & adore him.

Happy Half-Birthday, Cillian! We love you so much!

You Don't Say

2011-08-18T10:04:00.000-04:00

"Make Sure to get enough sleep. Being over-tired can be a trigger for snacking and overeating."
Tip #59, Weight Watchers Ultimate 3 Month Tracker

Um, yeah....
Funny I read that today.
I have really been struggling lately with my eating and (lack-of) exercising.
Without a doubt, it's directly related to the major sleep issues happening over here. As in Cillian waking about every 2 hours most of the summer.

I know, I know..."let him cry".
I have some issues with that, and quite frankly, I stink at it.
I can handle the 1st time he goes down for the night, but in the middle of the night?

That's where I am right now, up 3 pounds. :( Im not happy about it, but yesterday I got myself back on track.
Now if only that cute 6-month old of mine would sleep again...

His 1st Tee-Ball Season!

2011-08-16T11:01:00.000-04:00

Brennan finished his very first season of t-ball: 4 year old t-ball through our city's summer rec program.

He LOVED it! And bias-aside, he was adorable.

When he'd get the ball in the outfield, no matter where I was or where the ball was supposed to be going, Brennan would run to me and proudly yell "MOM! I got the ball!". All surrounding parents would chuckle & say "he's so cute".

Yeah, this mom agrees.

getting ready to bat

this kid is growing up so fast!

Batter Up!

Run to 1st Base!

Proudly getting his very first trophy

this doesn't come close to capturing his excitement

on to business: trophy: check! Certificate: check! Freezie? yes please!

Celebratory ice cream after the final game. Now a tradition.

Enjoying the ice cream & the glorious mess

Placing his trophy on his shelf. Just like Aidan's now. :)

Me & my little player

The handsome men in my life

It was a blast & Brennan is already asking when he can play again.

Hopefully sooner than later we can say "play ball!".

Menu Plan Monday--August 8, 2011

2011-08-07T23:05:00.000-04:00

Monday: Crockpot Cola Chicken, baked beans, raw baby carrots

Tuesday: Pasta Night (meatless)

Wednesday: Tacos (ground beef)
Thursday: Sandwich Night (grilled cheese or fried egg for the boys; black bean veggie burger for me)
Friday: Zucchini Squares & zucchini sticks (believe it or not, Aidan's request)

2 weeks until school starts! AGH!!! I can honestly say I am not ready, and for those of you in the loop, I still don't feel 100% either way for this school year. I know one thing for sure: summer has gone by too fast, and I'm not ready to send my boys off.
When does school start for you?

Hello, I am the Cowardly Lion

2011-08-04T20:45:00.000-04:00

I lack courage.

Where does this stem from?

From a summer-long debate about where God wants us to educate our children.
Our oldest is entering 2nd grade, our middle son starting pre-4.

To date Aidan has gone to our parish school, and both boys have been registered there since spring.
Yet homeschooling has heavily been on my mind, yet again.

One day I'm all pumped, buying bins to create their workboxes, choosing curriculum, and getting down right excited over the flexibility it will enable, the financial freedom, the new opportunities.

The next day, I feel God wants us to stick with the plan, at least for this year, allowing Aidan to receive his First Holy Communion with his class, appreciating the wonderful Catholic staff at our parish.

I see something that seems a sign for Catholic school.
I then see something that seems a sign for homeschooling.

I have had endless discussions about it with numerous people, attended the Homeschool Resource Sale, joined Yahoo groups...
It's interfered with my sleep. Brought butterflies to my stomach.
Tears to my eyes.

I believe that it's not one-size-fits-all. If you follow God's plan, it will ultimately be what's best for your family.
For some, that means traditional school.
For others, that means homeschooling.

One is not better than the other (usually), and homeschooling parents are not better than other parents, parents who choose traditional schools are not better than homeschooling families.

But UGH.
I'm torn up.
I feel perhaps this year, at least, God wants our boys at our parish school.
Much to my surprise, I also feel sad at that.
I enjoy lesson planning, seeing them interact so well together, grow, etc.

I'm between a rock and hard place, and I'm lacking courage to let go & let God.

I am the cowardly lion.
I just want what is overall best for my boys and my family.
I don't want to miss the special moments, I want them to have solid friends, to be safe, love God above all else, and when need be, I want to trust the people in their lives.

My heart is heavy.

Boy Mom BlogHop!

2011-07-28T15:09:00.001-04:00

"I'm hungry!" (words I hear all the time)

"Watch your aim! Keep it in the water!" (words my boys hear from me all the time)

Welcome to my blog!

I am so excited to participate in the blog hop, hosted by the MOB Society.

I am mom to 3 boys. :)
They are my boisterous blessings.
First came Aidan, our 7 year old:

Brennan is 4:

And the newest addition to our family, Cillian (almost 6 months):

A, B & C.
We didn't start off thinking "Let's name our kids in alphabetical order", because let's face it, some names I just love, and going in ABC order, well, we're not going to have 20something kids.

I'm outnumbered, but I like to joke and remind my husband that being the only girl means I should be treated more like a princess. Ha!

While the thought of a daughter does put a smile on my face, I thank God for giving my husband & I these boys to raise into gentlemen.
The world needs more God-centered gentlemen, and that's my goal in raising these boys.

My husband is a wonderful example of a gentleman, the hands-on dad that will often cook pancakes for dinner with his boys.

Patrick (my husband) works in Marketing, and I stay home with our kids (though we're on the go most of the time).

Our days are filled with creative sound-effects, Legos, trains galore, Mario & Luigi, swords made from straws...we're living the life.

I'm Sharon.
I enjoy browsing recipes & menu planning.
I am a lifetime member of Weight Watchers.
I love to dance, especially to 80's music.
I usually love to work out, incorporating Jillian Michaels dvds, power walking, and sculpting.
God humbles me every day on this parenting journey, revealing to me my weaknesses and always offering love and mercy.

On to the fun stuff that the MOB Society suggested.
With my 7yo we love reading:
The Magic Tree House, Cam Jansen, The Kids of the Polk Street School, and our current book is Super Fudge. On his own he loves reading about space, the planets, etc.

My 4yo loves Thomas. For the longest time, his favorite bedtime story was Llama Llama Mad at Mama.

Family Favorites:

As I type, my older two are running around with an orange sheet, pretending to be some mode of transportation. A LOUD mode.

Consequently the baby is now awake, eager to eat.

Off I go! Thanks for stopping by. :)
***Coming back to edit...how could I forget!
One of my favorite books is Boys Should be Boys by Meg Meeker. Wonderful, wonderful book.

Menu Plan Monday--July 25, 2011

2011-07-25T08:24:00.001-04:00

Monday: Easiest Pasta & Broccoli (new recipe)
Tuesday: Apricot-Mustard Pork, cucumber salad, some grain side dish (new recipe)
Wednesday: Grilled Cheese, fruit
Thursday: Crock Pot Chicken & Dumplings (end of page1-page2)
Friday: Lasagna Rolls (minus the spinach), salad

Recipe: Apricot-Mustard Grilled Pork Loin

2011-07-20T10:03:00.000-04:00

I just noticed this recipe on the Meijer site (under weekly nutritious menu). It sounded good, so I wanted it saved before the site no longer has it posted.
Let me know if you try it!

Apricot-Mustard Grilled Pork LoinServes 4

1 lb. boneless pork loin-$1.79
salt and pepper-on hand
3 tbsp. Meijer apricot preserves-$.31
1/4 cup Meijer mustard-on hand

1. Season pork loin with salt and pepper. Stir together apricot preserves and mustard in a small bowl. Place pork over a medium-hot fire and grill for about 15 minutes or until internal temperature reaches 145 degrees, followed by a 3 minute rest time. Brush with mustard mixture in the last few minutes.

Recipe adapted from www.porkbeinspired.com

Calories: 213
Total fat: 6g
Cholesterol: 78mg
Sodium: 221mg
Carbohydrate: 11g
Fiber: 1g
Protein: 25g

Summer Vacation! Weeks 5 & 6

2011-07-17T09:18:00.001-04:00

Ah, I slack in my sleep-deprived state as of late. I still plan to get these boys of mine back when they're teenagers & crave sleep more than anything else. Bwhahaha.

Moving on!
We just finished up week 6, which means summer is officially halfway over. Kinda sad.
Weeks 5 & 6 we slowed down a teeny bit. Much needed.
I also slacked on pictures, but hey, I'm going off very little sleep here.

Week 5!
Started off with the 4th of July, our kids playing in the yard, and just being together as a family.
The highlights of week 5:
Brennan has his very own playdate. It's usually Aidan having friends over, but this time, Brennan did!

Theo & Brennan enjoying a snack (this boy was so well-mannered!)

the boys had some time in the sprinkler

Pat's parents also came to visit! We enjoyed a trip to our Farmers' Market & then dinner.

Week 5 going into week 6...we hit up the Imagination Station last Sunday

great way to beat the heat!

2 of my handsome men

Another highlight of week 5! For me, anyways.
We tried some new recipe & they were GOOD. All voted do-again. So folks, if you're wondering what to cook, here are some suggestions:
Berry French Toast
Zucchini Sticks (delicious! And I don't usually care for zucchini)
Lasagna Rolls (we'd do w/o spinach next time, just personal preference)
Orange-Crumbed Baked Chicken
Pepperoni Bites
These are tasty even if you don't follow Weight Watchers. Trust me. And it's not like formerly-fat people want to eat just bland food. ;)

Aside from some good food, week 6 meant Summer Rec stuff: t-ball, coach-pitch, card swap (ha...trading Pokemon cards basically), Brennan's last story time at the library, The Closer premiering (heck yes I looked forward to that), and some playdates.
One playdate was at a park & we were there for over 2 hours! The kids played really well with their friends, and I enjoyed talking with the mom. It was win-win.

Here we are now, entering the 7th week of summer break.
Stores are filled with Back-to-School displays, uniforms, etc.
July is coming to an end.
It's going by so fast.

Sleep: Just a Memory

2011-07-15T19:43:00.000-04:00

Sadly, this is how it feels.
I'm recalling the wonderful thing known as SLEEP, through a very foggy mind.
I am worn down, people. Absolutely worn down.
I hate when I've reached this point, but it's where I am. And I sure as heck hope to be in a different situation soon!

Cillian has been a decently good baby & sleeper. When we went to SC last month he started not sleeping so well, and this past week it's just become downright terrible. He's not inconsolable, but he's waking A LOT. As in I haven't had more than a 2-hour stretch in some time.

Every once in a while, I can handle that, But night after night after night...
No. Then I feel myself in zombie mode, like I'm trudging through heavy slosh each step I take...
Like there is no amount of caffeine that can help me...
Like my brain is fogged over.
Things go undone around the house. The bed? Not made. The laundry? Fallen behind. (& those are 2 tasks I generally stay on top of)
Patience? Out the door.

Herein lies a dilemma.
I'm generally not a fan of CIO (cry-it-out), but I do know there are circumstances where it makes sense.
We tried CIO with Aidan & it didn't work.
We did it w/ Brennan & it did.
Each time I had many moments of feeling like a horrible mother, "making" my baby cry.
But there were also moments of seeing the rewards of the "training", and "letting" my baby learn to fall asleep unassisted.

Gah. What to do? What to do?
Cillian is only 5 months old (on the 18th) & part of me feels it's too young. The other part of me is screaming for relief from this exhaustion. Aside from some major teething, there is nothing physically wrong.

So can you help me? Just tell me what to do? PLEASE? I am so torn. And I'm driving myself crazy.

"Cash is KING!" (But I'm a Commoner!)

2011-07-11T09:30:00.000-04:00

Sometimes it feels like a "Detainee". (don't know the hierarchy? Read here)

The other day I was browsing the news online, and "10 Reasons I'm Canceling My Credit Cards" caught my attention. The 10 Reasons:

I'll spend less.
The card bonuses aren't worth it (true that!!)
Cash makes budgeting easy (again, a huge AMEN from me!)
Less worry about identity theft
Fewer impulse purchases
I can still shop online
Say goodbye to debt (I wish it was that easy)
Privacy
Cash rebuilds the link between what I earn and what I spend
Cash helps people I want to help

That's the list from the article, and most of them I agree with.

It took me back to when Pat & I did Financial Peace University (Dave Ramsey's course), and we felt the "fire". We were pumped to make cash king, budget together every single month, etc.

While we haven't fully gotten away from that, we've certainly lost some of that fire.

Plain & simple: real life can just stink.

We get ahead one step, and shortly after something happens pushing us back many more steps.

Just when I think "phew, we will never be at square one again!, guess where I find myself?

Yup.

Square one.

It's frustrating.

And while I know that even wealthy people aren't exempt from such situations, I can't help but think the extra money would be a nice factor. (duh, right?)

It makes me question decisions we've made, like the value of a stay-at-home-mom, Catholic schools, clipping coupons, etc.

I'm doing what I can, yet we keep ending up where we started. It's not supposed to be that way!

I'm whining. Perhaps even having a slight temper tantrum.

But I feel discouraged & just plain sick of it.

On paper, we should be better than ok:

We're in our 30's, we both have our degrees, one of us an MBA.

I went to private school my entire life, kindergarten through college.

We both received above-average educations.

We're frugal.

We don't take extravagant vacations.

Going off the last 2 points...it's not like I'm looking to do extraordinary things.

I'm talking about getting a playset for my kids in our backyard. Getting my eyebrows waxed when they first need it, not waiting until it's not coming from the grocery budget.

Enrolling my kids in martial arts (huge dream of mine).

A house with some SPACE, where the master closet is actually bigger than the kids' closet. Where more than 1 bathroom exists.

I'm not talking about private lessons here, or a trip to a fancy day spa. I'm not referring to a Rainbow playset that costs literally thousands of dollars.

Yeah, yeah. Offer me some cheese for my whine, I get it.

I need to get it off my chest, though. Sometimes that alone gives new perspective.

On the one token, I am proud of us for managing w/ what we do have. We're not bumming meals off of people, no one else is paying for our kids' clothes or tuition, and we've packed more into our 3 bedroom house than I ever thought we could.

We're healthy, and though it's not always stylish, we do have enough clothes for our bodies, food to eat, and a clean bathroom to use.

Then there is the other side of that token, basically this post of mine.

Ugh. When will it change? WILL it change? Is this just life? Do even the well-off get pushed back again & again?

Please share if you have some good insight. Because this soul over here is feeling it.

Menu Plan Monday--July 11, 2011

2011-07-11T08:25:00.000-04:00

Monday: Lasagna Rolls, Salad
Tuesday: Orange-Crumbed Baked Chicken, broccoli, probably potatoes
Wednesday: Pepperoni Bites, Salad, fruit
Thursday: Leftovers or Sandwich Night
Friday: Pancakes for Dinner

Week 4! Summer Vacation

2011-07-08T13:52:00.000-04:00

Summer is rolling along quickly! Our week coming off of vacation-mode was hot, humid, but still fun. :)

Cillian showing off smiles at the library

Brennan playing at library

searching for books while Aidan was in an art class

the boys at the 577 Foundation

drumming along

Aidan checking out the climbing wall

This is how Cillian hangs on our outings

Summer Rec "Games & Giggles"

Aidan had not 1, not 2, but THREE friends over for some water fun

water gun fight!

and of course some Wii time

enjoying sno-cones at Perrysburg's 1st Friday

trackless train ride at First Friday

Cillian! Trying to crawl already

the big-boy needed to move out of the bassinet already as he was SHAKING it so much. Now it's the crib! (and in bed w/ us;)

Some fun at the park...Brennan w/ a marvelous stick

park fun

Aidan at bat

library yet again (once for Aidan's class, once for Brennan's)

Brennan at bat!

As you can see, week 4 was busy! Maybe a little too busy after coming off vacation-mode, but we had some fun.

Summer: one month in. How's it going for you?

Menu Plan Monday--July 4, 2011

2011-07-04T19:33:00.000-04:00

Happy Independence Day! We've had the grill going for every dinner since Friday. :) (or I should say my husband has) It's been delicious! I am blessed to be married to a man that not only likes to cook, but is a GOOD cook, too.
The remainder of the week needs to be planned, though, and it will be my turn for cooking once again.

Tuesday: Mixed Berry French Toast Bake, fruit on side

Wednesday: Spaghetti

Thursday: out to dinner w/ my in-laws/visit farmers market

Friday: Baked Zucchini Sticks, string cheese, maybe some pasta salad

Summer Vacation: Week 3 (North Myrtle Beach!)

2011-06-30T18:24:00.000-04:00

June 17-24th was spent in North Myrtle Beach.
Once again, my parents booked rooms through their timeshare, hosting my family & my siblings' & their families. It was a great time, being a mini-reunion. I hadn't seen most of them since this time last year, and it was great to just be around everyone.

The car ride down...the very LONG drive, wasn't so much fun, but it was worth it.
We already ordered a photo book & shipped it to my parents as a thank you. I hope they like it.

And now the pictoral review:

the boys admiring the view from our balcony, 14th floor

Aidan & Brennan enjoying pool time w/ their cousin Jack

where we stayed

Cillian & I

3 of my 4 men ;) (Aidan dresses himself...)

my handsome hubby (I can feel his embarrassment reading this, but that's just tough!)

Brennan

Aidan

my sister & I (btw, our dance party was a favorite from this trip!)

Cillian

view from our room

GNO!

Pat rode the performer's unicycle at Barefoot Landing

Barefoot Landing

darn humidity kept fogging up the camera! Still, it was our best family photo from the trip

my sister gave me this red wine. And the humor: of us 3 girls, she is the middle sister.

Cillian finally got to meet his godparents

Cillian & I with my parents

Brennan & Addie (he says she's now his best friend)

palm trees...I love seeing them

Yeah. We saw this not-so-happy face quite a bit on the drive home.

One of the gorgeous views we saw on our drive

It was a very nice trip. :) By the end, it truly felt like it went too fast.

Summer Vacation: Week 2

2011-06-30T09:12:00.000-04:00

This summer is flying by compared to last summer. Amazing what the morning sickness did to me last summer!

We're enjoying our time together (for the most part;), and I hope my boys are having a fun summer. Week 2 for us:

Cuddle time on the couch: Aidan & Cillian

movie time for the 3 boys

Coach-Pitch started for Aidan

Lazy afternoons playing in the backyard

Brennan started tee-ball

Cillian taking a good nap (last week in the bassinet)

We picked up their portraits from Target

One of Cillian's 3-month pictures

Week 2 was busy & fun.

Week 2 also had with it Story Time at the library for Brennan, a playdate at a park for Aidan, and Cillian's 4-month check-up. The lil' cutie weighed in at 13 pounds, 1 ounce (not quite 4 months at the time). The doctor was pleased, telling me most babies gain 1/2 ounce per day, and Cillian had been gaining a full ounce. :) That's my boy! The nurse was also amazed that he has never had a bottle. She made me feel pretty good about our exclusive breastfeeding.

Thursday we hit the road for Myrtle Beach! Stay tuned for week 3's post. :)

What He Does

2011-06-19T09:22:00.000-04:00

He admires the gifts that they are from God, seeing past annoyances.

He takes Aidan to every single Boy Scout activity, enduring an abundance of bug bites for the sake of fishing.

He rocks Brennan in the middle of the night, even though he is 4 and too old to be getting up still.

He wakes up every single morning with the kids.

He wears our babies to keep them happy.

He provides food on our table. clothes for our backs, and a solid roof over our heads.

He leads us in prayer each day.

He rides a 6-ft unicycle...that is certainly unique.

He is a father who sets a great example for his children, reflects God to his family, and today we wish him a most HAPPY FATHERS DAY!

We love you, Patrick!
Thank you for all you do for us.

Almost Beach-Bound!

2011-06-14T14:11:00.002-04:00

Thursday we hit the road (the very long, 17-hour road;) to North Myrtle Beach!
My parents arranged for another mini-family reunion again, hosting us all in their timeshare rooms.
It's the only time I see almost all of my siblings, as we're in many different states (CA, MI, OH, NC, and SC). My boys are super excited to see their cousins, we're excited for Cillian to meet everyone, and heck, it's the OCEAN!

I am pretty sure this will be Brennan's 1st time to the ocean.
In fact, the last time we went to Myrtle Beach, Aidan was 2!

Crazy.
It was a blast back in 2006, and I am certain it will be again this year, too.

Watch out SC...we're getting ready to invade!

Menu Plan Monday--June 13, 2011

2011-06-13T08:33:00.000-04:00

Hello!
I haven't done a MPM in some time, but I need the organization. This week's menu is using what we have in the house, hopefully avoiding any trip to the store (except for coffee cream...that could warrant an emergency! I need coffee!). We're driving down to Myrtle Beach on Thursday to see my side of the family, so we want to use up what we have & not spend any more $ at the store!

Monday: Crock Pot Mexican Chicken
~I'm making the chicken like this, then it will be served over Spanish rice w/ either black beans or refried beans. Topped w/ shredded cheese, salsa & sour cream if prefer. Corn if I have it.
Tuesday: Hot Dogs, potato rounds (black bean veggie burger for me)
Wednesday: Honey Chicken Stir-Fry or sandwiches

Thursday we leave for Myrtle Beach! :) Which means the rest of the week will be fun, convenient foods, eating out, drinking adult beverages....ah. Nice.

Thanks for stopping by & have a great week!

Summer Break: Week ONE

2011-06-10T09:58:00.000-04:00

The 1st week of summer vacation has been a pretty good one.
We kept busy, but not over-scheduled.
The boys bickered, but played well together more.
I'm sitting here thinking "It's already Friday. That went fast!".
And to think that next week will be even busier with summer rec stuff starting...ready or not.

A recap of our 1st week:
Monday: Boys' pictures at Target. Adorable. :) It went well taking them by myself.
Later that day we enjoyed a nice trip to the park. It was seriously fun, watching my older 2 boys enjoying each other's company, running up the big hill, exploring trees...brothers are a gift of each other from God.

Can you see how red Aidan is? It was getting HOT.
So we went directly from the park to get some ice cream, with chocolate syrup & sprinkles, of course.

Tuesday: Story Time for Brennan started at the library. We stayed there for about 2 hours, the boys playing, Aidan & I checking out many books, and we even made some copies of fun things to do for craft projects, etc. (I found my old teaching stuff...woot!) Cillian slept nicely in the Beco.
After lunch we made a butterfly & caterpillar craft project. The boys played in the sprinkler while the paint dried.

Aidan's adobe house at the library

paper towel tube painting (the caterpillar)

Handsome :)

excited to be messy

caterpillars!

the butterfly

Cillian watched all the action

sprinkler time

fun in the summer sun

Wednesday: Aidan's 1st art class at the library. They made Guatemalan plates, making for a fun hour-long class for him. The boys also had dental appointments that day. Once again, no cavities! Yay for that. This was also Brennan's 1st dental visit. Pat took them, and I was told Brennan was excellent. They both came home super excited over their new toothbrushes & dental floss.

(heck yes I have a picture, thanks to Pat;)

Thursday: MOPS playdate at the boys' favorite park. We played for 1.5 hours, the weather was nice & cool. (about 25 degrees cooler than the day before, with much less humidity). After they enjoyed a "picnic" lunch on a blanket on the floor.

That brings us to today, Friday.

It's our 1st day without something planned, and it's raining. works out well. We rented Gnomeo & Juliet, which the boys are watching now for the first time.

Our first week of summer has been pretty fun, the week went by quickly, and I can only hope the rest of summer is as nice.

Next week starts the Summer Rec programs, and we will be pretty busy.

And then....next Thursday we leave for Myrtle Beach!!

How is your summer break going so far?

He Finished First Grade!

2011-06-08T10:42:00.000-04:00

Aidan on the last day of 1st grade, receiving his report card from his teacher

compared to his 1st day of 1st grade:

He grew so much!

First grade ended well. There was the annual Party in the Parking Lot, followed by an ice-cream social on the last day. Aidan did very well in 1st grade, earning almost all A's for the entire year, growing into a fluent reader, advancing in Scouts...we are quite proud of him. :) He is a blessing!

Aidan with his good friend at Party in the Parking Lot

With some of his best buds at the ice cream social

Being silly & getting manicures with his friends during Party in the Parking Lot

1st grade...came & went in what now feels like the blink of an eye.

We started 1st grade off with morning sickness, Cillian in my belly, and a boy who wasn't quite 6 & a half yet.
1st grade ended with a 7 year old, whose baby brother is now almsot 4 months.

Here is to a great summer!

A Boy & His Train

2011-05-29T20:36:00.000-04:00

Brennan loves trains...all things trains.
His favorite shirt is a brown t-shirt with a steam engine on it.
In his bed are about a dozen Thomas books.
He plays with toy trains every single day.

When I came across this craft project, we instantly planned to do it. Fortunately we had everything we needed!
My boy & one of his trains :)

we traced his hand & arm for the train

he glued, did some cutting, and drew the tracks all by himself :)

very pleased with his end result!

I sure hope our projects are good preparation for him entering preschool in the fall.
We're having fun!

Menu Plan Monday--May 16, 2011

2011-05-16T10:45:00.001-04:00

Monday: Southwestern Pie
Tuesday: Hawaiian BBQ Chicken Sandwiches (slow cooker)
Wednesday: Pasta Night (meatless), bread rolls
Thursday: Bean Burritos (soccer practice)
Friday: Pancakes, fruit on side
Saturday or Sunday: Grilled Marinated Chicken, fresh veggies, probably potatoes

Cillian's Baptism (a little late in posting)

2011-05-14T12:39:00.000-04:00

Cillian Joseph was Baptized on Saturday, April 30th. (Oops...I'm a bit late in getting this posted.)
It was a private Baptism, thanks to Pat's grandfather being a Deacon.
Cillian wore the family Baptismal gown: Patrick was Baptized in it, as was his dad (& Aidan & Brennan).
Family & 2 good friends came to celebrate with us, and it was a beautiful day.

Aunt Tina helps Cillian get into the gown

Us with our cutie #3

Pouring of the Holy Water

Bethany was a huge help! It was great to see her.

Pat's grandparents (aka "the good Deacon & his wife;)

Steve!!!

Steve & Cillian

Thank you to all of our family & friends who made this day so special!

31! & Mother's Day!

2011-05-11T10:58:00.000-04:00

Sunday was a double-whammy for us: my birthday and Mother's Day.
It was a wonderful, sunny day.
One in which I did no cooking, we were all together, my husband & kids made me a CAKE, I was able to get in a lot of exercise (that always makes me happy), and we had delicious food & fun.
I am blessed to have such a thoughtful family.

Cillian gave me lots of smiles

Me w/ the bigger boys at the park

cool tree on the path we hiked

it was just gorgeous

3 of my loves

the "big boys"

Cillian snoozed most of the time

more of the beauty

the delicious cake!

I'm in Love

2011-05-04T16:46:00.000-04:00

He loves his baths. :)

Pros & Cons

2011-05-04T09:19:00.000-04:00

At 10 weeks of age, Cillian has discovered his hands.

Pro: He loves to play with them. You can hear him slurping on them, sucking on them, admiring them. Does he know they're hands? Doubtful. So to him they're these amazing things that he never loses. Pretty cool.

Con: Being a baby & all, he is constantly gagging himself with those fascinating hands. He shoves them in his mouth all excited to have something, then doesn't know how to stop gagging himself.
Ugh.

Pictures to come, I hope.

Menu Plan Monday--May 2, 2011

2011-05-02T04:26:00.000-04:00

Monday: Honey Chicken Stir-Fry (using pork)
Tuesday: Boys' Night or sandwich night
Wednesday: Meatless Pasta Night
Thursday: Angel Hair Pasta Chicken
Friday: Southwestern Pie (or eat at church for family night)

Mexican Pasta Skillet is another choice if we buy ground beef this week. And for my birthday & Mother's Day, we might make Linguine Alfredo because I love it. :)

Big Day!

2011-04-30T08:54:00.000-04:00

Today is crazy busy & exciting.

1-It's Aidan's 1st soccer game of the season. Never mind the muddy-wet fields. He's excited (woke up at dang 6:00 from that excitement), and it will be cute to see him give it his all in the game.

2-Cillian is being Baptized today!
I'm hoping he doesn't scream & it goes well.

We're also excited because Bethany is here visiting! (thanks for making the drive)
AND...we're going to see a dear friend of ours that we haven't seen since Aidan was ONE (he's 7 now). It will be great to see Steve (our friend).
It will just be nice to have so many family & friends celebrating with us.

So there it is-finishing off April with a bang!

The Birthday Cake!

2011-04-29T09:11:00.001-04:00

OK, maybe cupcakes is more accurate.

We celebrated the Aidan's & Brennan's birthdays with my husband's side of the family on Easter.
Since Aidan had a party at Chuck E Cheese, we told Brennan he could pick the type of cake they'd have.
Brennan made it clear: he wanted a train cake.

Last year we successfully made a dinosaur cake.
I checked the Betty Crocker site again, and they had a train cake tutorial, but it seemed too much for me. Costs too much, too much detail, etc. Wasn't a good fit.

Then there was buying something like this

or this

Both good options, but costing at least $20 and maybe not being worth it.

Then the magic happened & I found this blog post. We were hooked & inspired.
It was fun making the train cake, and I am so grateful to that blogger. ;)
My boys (especially Brennan) were very happy with their train cake.

So here it is:

Aidan's 7 candles

Brennan's 4 candles on a coal car

We are so blessed to have these 2 wonderful boys. They have big hearts & bring us much laughter and happiness.

Wordless Wednesday: Easter &My boys all snazzied up

2011-04-27T15:53:00.000-04:00

Above: Cillian on his 1st Easter

Below: Brennan & Aidan

Menu Plan Monday--April 25, 2011

2011-04-25T09:25:00.000-04:00

Monday: Pasta Night (meatless)
Tuesday: Turkey Bacon & Hash Brown Bake
Wednesday: Honey-Pineapple Chicken
Thursday: Honey-Mustard Pork, cheese biscuits, green beans
Friday: Black Bean Quesadillas (didn't get to these last week)

Before & After

2011-04-22T17:47:00.000-04:00

Pictured above: our old tv & entertainment center. That tv was given to us as a bridal shower gift back in March 2003.

Below: the tv we now own, thanks to a deal my husband saw on Woot.com.

I think it goes without saying, my husband is happy.

F-O-U-R!

2011-04-21T11:33:00.000-04:00

Brennan turned 4 on Tuesday (April 19th).
Seriously, he's 4?!

Hard to believe my stubborn, feisty little man is 4, starting preschool in the fall.
The days are long, but the years short, aren't they?

Brennan's birthday was all about Brennan, of course: doing what he wanted to do. That meant going to play at Chuck E Cheese and eating dinner at Wendy's.
Before heading out we sang Happy Birthday & gave him his presents.
Prepare for picture overload!

Aidan & Brennan playing in the morning...you can tell Brennan was thrilled to stop for a picture

some time dressing up as SuperHeroes

Batman & the Ninja

Time to sing Happy Birthday, & this is Cillian's take on it

That's FOUR candles now!

lovable birthday boy

Make a wish!

present time...Aidan's gift to him first

He's so happy to finally get a zhu zhu pet!

brothers & best friends...sometimes ;)

A license plate? For what?

a Lightning McQueen HELMET?!

A BIKE!!!!

Yeah. He digs his new ride, alright.

Playing at Chuck E Cheese: fun for kids, tiring for parents

of course a 7yo & 4yo play air hockey well. Pssh.

Brennan's birthday was a fun day, despite crazy rain, wind, and gloominess.
Brennan is a joy. He is a challenging joy, and it's rewarding to love him. :)

Menu Plan Monday--April 18, 2011

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Monday: Cheeseburger Pasta
Tuesday: Brennan's Birthday-his choice! :) (probably McD's playland)
Wednesday: Apricot Chicken, broccoli. brown rice or barley
Thursday: Pat's off work, so grill out or boys cook
Friday: Black Bean Quesadillas

My SEVEN YEAR OLD

2011-04-15T10:09:00.000-04:00

How on earth is Aidan already 7?!

It's gone by fast...well, as they say, the days are often long, but the years always short!

I have to say, Aidan is an incredible kid. Beyond my bias, I can honestly say that several people have told us how caring and sweet he is. He has a huge heart, always tries to help others, loves God, prays for others...corny, it may sound, but those are great qualities. And Aidan has them.
We're very proud of him, and he is a blessing to our family.
He's an incredible big brother, smart student (honor roll all year! & his teacher is TOUGH), devoted. Just truly a blessing.

He had fun at Chuck E Cheese, and on his b-day, he took brownies in to school, then we had Cosmic brownies that evening at home (his choice). He got to open his presents from us once Pat was home from work.

And now, picture overload!

The newly 7-year-old before school, bonding w/ Cillian

Cillian gave him lots of smiles

after school, waiting for his brownie & singing Happy Birthday

he blew out the candles before I could get a picture

present time!

Bakugan from Brennan! (on clearance for...$1.74! awesome)

what could it be?

the solar system night-light!

opening what he said he wanted...

and very happy with it. Looks good, doesn't he?

father & son: 2 handsome guys

opening the family gift (binoculars)

This is what Cillian did during all of this

checking out one of his tools

oh yeah...boys will be boys, alright

Brennan using the "binocwulars", as he calls them

"check it out, mom!"

the solar system night-light, which shows over Aidan's top bunk at night. He loves it.

It was a pretty good day!
Aidan likes his gifts, and he proclaims himself as a SEVEN year old.
Wow.

Highlights from the Weekend

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Brennan held Cillian for the 1st time

Aidan's birthday donut

Aidan's pick: Chuck E Cheese

adorable kid

enjoying the gorgeous weather on Sunday at the park (with my new BECO carrier!)

Aidan, being all-boy

Brennan being all-boy with his new ball

I absolutely love this shot. For me, it captures all boyhood, especially my little men. :)

Menu Plan Monday--April 11, 2011

2011-04-11T13:13:00.000-04:00

Monday: Frozen lasagna due to a meeting (w/ some salad)
Tuesday: Aidan's choice-it's his b-day! (prob French Toast)
Wednesday: Layered Chicken & Black Bean Enchilada Casserole
Thursday: Chicken Parmesan in the Slow Cooker
Friday: Four Cheese Macaroni & Cheese or Loaded Mashed Potato Cakes, eggs fruit

Friday Smile

2011-04-08T13:38:00.000-04:00

Guess who started smiling over the past week?
(He's 7 weeks old today...crazy!)

Wordless Wednesday: Zoo Trip! (Cillian's 1st)

2011-04-06T15:51:00.000-04:00

He Did Well

2011-04-04T16:18:00.000-04:00

The necklace pictured above is what Patrick brought back for me from Puerto Rico.

Normally he doesn't get us things from his trip.
I'm quite pleased. :)
I LOVE the necklace. Love the color. Love the chain length. Love it all.

He did pretty darn good.
ALMOST makes up for the insanity that was last week...almost.
(maybe another date or two & we can call it even...hint hint;)

APRIL!

2011-04-04T16:02:00.000-04:00

Holy smokes, I'm the absent-blogger.
I have some posts coming up (aside from MPM)...like the fact that we survived the 5 days solo without Pat!
And pictures fo the awesome swords be brought back for the boys, and the gorgeous necklace he got me (he did well;).
Updates on Weight Watchers and weighing-in...

Lots!

Time has been escaping me, though, and I think I'll get to regularly posting in a few months.
Not that many people read my blog any more, but I like it for my own looking-back.

Stay tuned...

Menu Plan Monday--April 4, 2011

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How is it that next week my oldest turns 7? Ah! It's going so fast. (most of the time;) I hope his final week of being a 6-year-old is a good one.

Monday: Me atloaf Muffins, potatoes, green beans
Tuesday: Boys' Night (no cooking for momma!)
Wednesday: Blue & Gold Banquet (Scouts)-dinner there
Thursday: Crockpot Ranch Potatoes & Chicken
Friday: Bean Burritos (never had the previous week)

Have a great week! I'm hoping for actual spring weather here. :)

Wordless Wednesday: When the Grandparents were Here

2011-03-30T12:10:00.000-04:00

The boys received early birthday presents from my parents

Together, Aidan & my dad out together his new space puzzle.

It was nice having them here.

Not-so-wordless-Wednesday