Censorship: Not Just a Parent's Right, but an OBLIGATION

USA Today reports a recent study that found "38% of young smokers took up the habit because of tobacco use on the big screen. Researchers surveyed 532 movies and found smoking in 74% of them."
That percentage only reflects those surveyed- there a so many more unaccounted for. And when they say "young", this means 10-14 year olds. Children even younger are smoking.

As parents, there IS something we can do about this. Not only CAN we do something, but we SHOULD be doing something. It isn't just a thought- it is a responsibility and an obligation.

As parents, if we begin to once again treat our children like children (as opposed to our peers), and we monitor what they watch, who they hang out with, and so on, we are taking a step in the right direction. That direction is one where we are protecting our kids and guiding them into the proper place for adulthood. Why not censor what they watch? Are we afraid they will be upset with us? Too bad! They are our CHILDREN. They're going to get upset with their parents- it is normal! They NEED tough love. Watching smoking isn't the only thing sticking out in their minds- it is also the drugs, the sex, the bad language. Unfortunately, it goes on and on.
Making them numb to this- letting them get used to seeing these things- makes it "normal" for them. Which makes it that much easier for them to start doing themselves!

"Experts agree, though, that parents should shield their children from movies
that feature smoking. Films that depict smoking only by "bad guys" are just as
damaging as those whose heroes smoke, because many kids identify with rebellious
characters, Sargent says. Films also teach insecure and shy children to use
cigarettes to start conversations and ease awkward social situations, he says."

Um, yea- it is too easy. EVERYWHERE you look practically shows off drinking, drugs, smoking, and/or sex. So we can't hide it from them altogether. We can't shelter them from all of it. BUT- we CAN make a start and minimize what they do take in.

Aren't they worth it?